Category Archives: Musings…

Label Whores – Black Lesbians’ Obsession with Labels

Femme. Stud. Goldstar. Lipstick. Chapstick. Boi. Soft Stud. Pillow Queen. Touch Me Not. Baby Dyke. Sike a Dike. AG. Aggressive. Butch. Domme. Agressive Femme. Tomboi. Ultrafemme. Am I missing some? I know there are some regional labels that only two … Continue reading

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Yes I still blog…

Ok so obviously I have been slacking on my blogging recently. Please don’t think it’s because I don’t love y’all or because I don’t have anything to say. Mama has been busy honey. For the last few months I have … Continue reading

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Coming Out Redux… A Holiday Story

Yeah so I had to come out again since it appears the first time didn’t take… *side eye* Now keep in mind my mom has spoken to exes, heard me talk about them when they got on my nerves and … Continue reading

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I’m baaaaaack

Ok so I haven’t really gone anywhere but I was on a self imposed social networking hiatus for the last two months. It was full of reflection so I thought I would share. And no I am not turning into … Continue reading

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Happy National Coming Out Day… Give me a Break

Yes this is another one of those posts that won’t win me any Lesbian of the Year awards… but here we go. Yesterday as I was doing my daily twitter perusal (oh yeah Follow Me) I saw a new trending … Continue reading

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